The festive parties are already starting, we all want to be able to walk in feeling fabulous and full of confidence, Here are a few tips from Annie Ashdown from the Life Coach Directory that just may help.
1 – Always have a small ego and a large soul.
2 – Stop putting others on a pedestal, we are all on equal ground, no one is better than you.
3 – Dont be a comparison junkie, or part of the ‘poor me’ club. Focus on all your positives and talents, not what you think you lack. Dont let comparisons eclipse your worth.
4 – Know your gifts and limitations, but dont flaunt either. Confidence is contagious, so is lack of confidence.
5 – Whether you are serving burgers or running the country humility is an equalizing attitude of respect towards yourself and others
6 – Have a positive attitude, value yourself highly, assert your needs, see yourself as competent in control of your life. Take others opinions of you in your stride.
7 – Remember what others think of you is none of your business and what you think of others is none of their business.
8- Its a numbers game, so dont take rejection personally. It is just not a match until it is.
9 – Successful people are not always the most gifted or talented at school, but they chose to believe in themselves that anything was possible. They studied, practised and worked hard and achieved success.
10 – Remove ‘I can’t ‘ from your dictionary. Stay in a negative free zone. Remember the power of the spoken word, and that what we focus on expands. Transform any jealousy of others into admiration. True courage and self-confidence has a quiet charisma
Have a great day